"A raritysimple, profound, and full of hope!" DAVID VISCOTT, M.D., "Risking" and "The Language of Feelings" -- Endorsement

"A Book which makes all other texts about relationships finally understandable." EDDIE SCHWARTZ -- Skyway News, Minneapolis

"I have read and enjoyed your very valuable book. It is a real gift to those in relationship" TEV. TERRY COLE-WHITTAKER, author of "What You Think of Me Is None of My Business" -- Endorsement

"The most important, useful and powerful book I have read on couple therapy since Virginia Satirs Conjoint Family Therapyone of the rare books that is both useful to the lay audience and indispensable for the clinician." DENNIS JAFFE, PH.D., author of "Healing From Within" -- Endorsement

"fascinating material for readers to test in their own lives." RUCH C. IKERMAN, Los Angeles Times -- Los Angeles Times --This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Product Description
Arguing with your spouse about the checkbook? The in-laws? Kids' schedules? Couples think they fight about money, family issues, and time. But what are these conflicts really about? Family therapists Jordan Paul and Margaret Paul reveal how couple discord is often rooted in self-protection. Here, in their best-selling book, they help couples work through fears and false beliefs that block expression of loving feelings. The result? A freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationship.